Need serious help and counselling?

Oh honey...you are 22 and he is in his late 30's?? I'm sorry to say, but he took advantage of you. He will never leave his wife for you, and he has made it clear that he doesn't want any kind of relationship with you. I know the truth hurts, but it's time to face it. He used you...believe me, he knew what he was doing. You are very young, and he knew he could manipulate you. I think you should keep looking for a job, and as soon as you find one...leave him and never talk to him again. He is not a good person...in fact, when you do quit...you should tell his wife and everyone at your job. He deserves it. Listen to me...he doesn't love you. You need to forget him and move on. Find a guy who treats you with respect.